The truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, truth is truth. People, news, media and the politically correct crowd talk a lot about integrity these days. The definition of integrity is: “The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness”. Synonyms are honest, honor, good character, and truthfulness. Integrity allows you to do the right thing and tell the truth in any given situation. Many people today are honest until it becomes inconvenient. For example, some will be honest as long as it is to their advantage. As soon as it is not, they might lie, change their story or conceal portions of the truth. Unfortunately, most people find nothing wrong with this behavior. Our President and elected officials can lie and mislead us, and we accept it. None of us should make excuses for those leaders who act outside of integrity.

Most studies show that people want to follow a person with integrity, someone who adheres to a code of moral values and is incorruptible. They want to follow someone who treats others fairly and honestly and someone who is true to their word. All of us have to ask ourselves who we are and what kind of person we want to be. Do we fit the definition of integrity? How would others describe us? We need to be people of honesty and integrity regardless of the situation. Remember, those are attributes you can give away, but, no one can take from you.

Just a thought,

PSS

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Unfortunately, we live in a society that endorses the mentality that anything goes and everything has to be accepted or else you are a hater. Integrity is absent even in the most important places. Whether you examine a high political office, medical professional or religious leader, integrity will remain elusive. There is a lack of integrity no matter where you look because the current societal dogma assigns a higher level of importance to an individual’s feelings than an individual’s integrity. Long gone are the days in which people were known for keeping their word.

Integrity is defined as “the quality of being honest and having strong moral principle; moral uprightness, synonymous with honor, good character, ethical, sincere, truthfulness.” Here are a few quotes about integrity:

“Real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that nobody’s going to know whether you did it or not.” - Oprah Winfrey

"A single lie destroys a whole reputation of integrity." - Baltasar Gracian

“If you don’t have integrity, you have nothing. You can’t buy it. You can have all the money in the world, but if you are not a moral and ethical person, you really have nothing.” - Henry Kravis

Maintaining and boosting your integrity instead of degrading it is up to you. No one can change your level of integrity by giving it to you or by taking it away from you. You can willingly surrender it, but no one can forcefully take it. Let us strive to be honest and trustworthy men and women of our word. Only then will we have a greater peace of mind in knowing that treating people fairly will lead to a life with far fewer regrets.

Just a thought,

PSS

“One of the most powerful forces in the universe is the truth because you cannot change it, no matter what.”

Wisdom says to hear both sides of the story before making any decisions. People sometimes take on others’ offenses without investigating both sides. Many relationships suffer because people take up offenses that are not theirs to take. Often, when people do not get their way, they get angry and begin to spew bitterness and resentment towards the people they could not control. Strife can only create more strife, so we should be wise by carefully avoiding it wherever and whenever possible.

It is amazing how people who do not even like each other will unite when they have a target to attack. I call it the “Spirit of Absalom”. The discontented and the disgruntled will band together mostly because they did not get their way. The saddening thing is that some folks will allow themselves to be in relationship with people like that. Bad company corrupts good character. Let us choose our friends wisely and get the whole truth before answering a matter. Let us purpose to never take on the problems or offenses of others, no matter who they are. We should be very careful not to attack the Church of our Lord Jesus Christ—we must choose to keep our hearts and minds away from strife, and we must also avoid those who cause division in the body of Christ. Do not allow another’s sin to become yours. If at all possible, live at peace with one another.

Just a Thought

PSS

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We should strive to be people that attempt to lead a quiet and peaceful life when possible. So many people are overly combative.  We should work away from being like that. The combative mentality stems from a feeling of having been dealt a bad hand in the game of life. Combative people typically feel as if someone is always picking on them or being unfair. They feel like they have to fight to be heard. They want their way so badly that they become contentious with everyone around them. We should learn to live in peace with others as much as possible and avoid unnecessary fights.

Sometimes, this attitude stems from our own insecurities, like always needing to be validated.  Face it. Fighting with others is not much fun at all. The opposite is learning to let some things go and not be so combative just for the sake of being combative.  I do not believe we want to be known as “the difficult one”. I have had employees that I dreaded having to talk to or correct. They would not listen, and they always had an excuse and were always right. Every time I had to deal with them I knew it would be a big deal. After a while, these folks did not make it. They always blamed someone else. Let us try not to be like that. Take correction and listen to what others have to say (especially your boss or spiritual leader) and let us learn to honor those in authority over us.

Just a thought,

PSS

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One of the secrets to success is giving, not taking. Research done by Wharton Professor Adam Grant suggests that some of the most successful people (not just in business) are in fact classic “givers”. They are people who genuinely try to help those around them. The help does not just come in the form of finances but also in taking an interest in sharing information and being willing to assist others in their endeavors as well.

We need to understand that a gracious attitude is needed to be successful. If all you do is take, then you are self-absorbed. On the other hand if you give, share, or help others get ahead, then I believe you will be happier and life will look brighter to you. We should really make an effort to comprehend the principle of being generous. Don’t just expect people to give to you because they have something, but because they are sincerely concerned about you. So many people today are takers and think only of themselves, without any care for others. Givers are more successful than takers, so which are you?

Just A Thought,

PSS

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