“One of the most powerful forces in the universe is the truth because you cannot change it, no matter what.”

Wisdom says to hear both sides of the story before making any decisions. People sometimes take on others’ offenses without investigating both sides. Many relationships suffer because people take up offenses that are not theirs to take. Often, when people do not get their way, they get angry and begin to spew bitterness and resentment towards the people they could not control. Strife can only create more strife, so we should be wise by carefully avoiding it wherever and whenever possible.

It is amazing how people who do not even like each other will unite when they have a target to attack. I call it the “Spirit of Absalom”. The discontented and the disgruntled will band together mostly because they did not get their way. The saddening thing is that some folks will allow themselves to be in relationship with people like that. Bad company corrupts good character. Let us choose our friends wisely and get the whole truth before answering a matter. Let us purpose to never take on the problems or offenses of others, no matter who they are. We should be very careful not to attack the Church of our Lord Jesus Christ—we must choose to keep our hearts and minds away from strife, and we must also avoid those who cause division in the body of Christ. Do not allow another’s sin to become yours. If at all possible, live at peace with one another.

Just a Thought

PSS

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We should strive to be people that attempt to lead a quiet and peaceful life when possible. So many people are overly combative.  We should work away from being like that. The combative mentality stems from a feeling of having been dealt a bad hand in the game of life. Combative people typically feel as if someone is always picking on them or being unfair. They feel like they have to fight to be heard. They want their way so badly that they become contentious with everyone around them. We should learn to live in peace with others as much as possible and avoid unnecessary fights.

Sometimes, this attitude stems from our own insecurities, like always needing to be validated.  Face it. Fighting with others is not much fun at all. The opposite is learning to let some things go and not be so combative just for the sake of being combative.  I do not believe we want to be known as “the difficult one”. I have had employees that I dreaded having to talk to or correct. They would not listen, and they always had an excuse and were always right. Every time I had to deal with them I knew it would be a big deal. After a while, these folks did not make it. They always blamed someone else. Let us try not to be like that. Take correction and listen to what others have to say (especially your boss or spiritual leader) and let us learn to honor those in authority over us.

Just a thought,

PSS

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One of the secrets to success is giving, not taking. Research done by Wharton Professor Adam Grant suggests that some of the most successful people (not just in business) are in fact classic “givers”. They are people who genuinely try to help those around them. The help does not just come in the form of finances but also in taking an interest in sharing information and being willing to assist others in their endeavors as well.

We need to understand that a gracious attitude is needed to be successful. If all you do is take, then you are self-absorbed. On the other hand if you give, share, or help others get ahead, then I believe you will be happier and life will look brighter to you. We should really make an effort to comprehend the principle of being generous. Don’t just expect people to give to you because they have something, but because they are sincerely concerned about you. So many people today are takers and think only of themselves, without any care for others. Givers are more successful than takers, so which are you?

Just A Thought,

PSS

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If you are not for giving, you will tend to be un-forgiving. People who are givers are usually more forgiving than people who are not. In today’s society, which has a non-Biblical world view, we have become more selfish and self-centered. Greed is taking over our country and our politics, giving way to more selfishness and un-forgiveness. An attitude of giving and being generous are the keys to being happier and at peace with ourselves. Giving to the church, for example, will help us to let offences go. It will help us forgive that person who has hurt us.

If you are not willing to be generous, you are apt to hold grudges, harbor un-forgiveness, bitterness, and resentfulness. Holding on to un-forgiveness destroys our lives. If you want to let go of past hurts and disappointments, then you should begin to practice generosity. Start giving and watch as you experience forgiveness. You will be able to forgive others as well as yourself, and that is a huge step towards peace of heart and mind. Giving of your money, time and resources will begin to increase the peace in your life. It is your choice, so choose wisely.

Just a Thought,

PSS

Legacychurch.com

Who or what owns first place in your life? It should be an easy thing to tell if someone observed your words, your actions and where you spend your time. Too many people are transferring their allegiance from God to the government. This is dangerous not just as individuals, but also as a nation. God said if He holds the first place in our life, He would provide the things we need to live (Matt. 6:33). We ought to seek Him and His ways and His line of thinking.

There are those who put God in the trunk like a tire jack and only get Him out “in case of emergencies”. No one likes to be treated like that, and yet that is how some people treat God. He is either first or not. If He is first, everything falls into place. God loves you, but He will only lead you if you allow Him into the driver’s seat. Whatever you are the most passionate about, or where you spend most of your time and money will be first in your life. I believe that as you take inventory of your life, you will make the necessary adjustments to ensure that God has been given His rightful place on the throne of your heart: FIRST PLACE.

Just a Thought,

PSS

Legacychurch.com