Reactive vs proactive: which one are you? 

Reaction vs prevention:

Reactive means reacting to problems when they occur instead of doing something to prevent them. Proactive means getting things done, making things happen instead of waiting for them to happen to you, taking an active role in dealing with something before it needs to be taken care of. When we are reactive to circumstances, we are controlled by them. When we are proactive to circumstances, we are, instead, in control of ourselves.

Being reactive:

When we are reactive people, we have feelings which depend on the results of external events or processes that we have no control over — they are completely outside our sphere of influence, yet they can control our lives. Reactive people usually have little control over their emotions. Instead, their emotions are dictated by someone else or something else. It’s really not a healthy way to live. Reactive people make statements such as: “If they would treat me better, I would be happy,” “They made me so mad, that is why I acted the way I did,” “I wish I had more time.” Or they think that, because it’s cloudy and rainy, it is a miserable day. Truth is — we are all guilty of being reactive from time to time, without even knowing it.

Being proactive:

We should start being more proactive in our lives — means, setting goals, dealing with our health before it breaks down. It’s learning we are in control of our emotions, what we think about, how we deal with issues. It’s choosing not to be controlled by external circumstances. But it is always our choice. 

Which one do you choose: reactive or proactive?

Just a thought,

PSS

Our Hearts Speak

People will make these statements: “You don’t know my heart,” or, “You know my heart.” Usually people use these statements to do less than they know to do — never to do more than is required or expected, but to do less.

“God knows my heart”:

God knows my heart – so He knows why I am not going to do some part of His word. We know to forgive, to give our tithes and offerings, to treat people well, to prefer others over our desires. But, God knows my heart, so He is OK with my being rebellious and disobedient. First of all, this is an excuse, not a truth.

Our actions reveal our hearts:

God never understands, nor permits, our being disobedient to His word. The truth in our hearts is revealed by our actions, our deeds, our words. If you are doing the right things — what God’s word teaches — you will never have to say, “God knows my heart.” Our hearts are revealed by our actions.

Jesus speaks:

Luke 6:45 NLT: “A good person produces good things from the treasury of a good heart, and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury of an evil heart. What you say flows from what is in your heart.” The words of Jesus make it clear — a good heart produces good actions; an evil heart produces disobedience and rebellion against God’s word.

What is in your heart? You will know by what comes out of you.

Just a thought,

PSS

God’s Sovereignty

When people say, “God is in control,” what do they mean? I believe most of the time they mean that if something happens, good or bad, it was God’s will — because He is in charge of everything — He is sovereign. The problem with this thinking is, it’s not true. God is never the author of bad.

Our free will:

The word “sovereign” means: supreme in power or authority, not influenced by outside sources. But most people believe it means God is in control of every aspect of our lives and the lives of everyone. The truth is: if God is in complete control, then we don’t have free will. And we know God gave us all free will.

God’s will:

2 Peter 3:9b – not wishing for any to perish, but that all should turn to repentance. Matthew 7:13 — You can enter God’s kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. We can see God’s will is that no man perish.

Our choice:

So, if He is control of everything, why do more people reject Him than accept Him? The reason is that God gave us all free will. Our choices matter. God has a perfect plan for all of our lives. But we have to choose to follow Him and His word to experience that plan.

We are responsible for our choices, our decisions. It’s those choices that determine whether or not we receive God’s blessings — whether or not we receive His salvation. Our choice!

Just a thought,

PSS

To walk with God continually, we need to become steadfast.

Know your beliefs:

Steadfastness, or being steadfast, is being a person who knows what they believe and never backs down from it. We must know what we believe and whom we believe in. Hebrews 10:23 NLT says, Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep His promise. When we understand and believe that, we will become steadfast — never wavering from the truth.

Be consistent:

Steadfastness, I believe, will produce consistency. It will lead us to becoming consistent in our attitudes, consistent in our emotions. Moodiness is a lack of being consistent. We’re up one moment, down the next. We’re making decisions, one moment flying off the handle, and the very next moment calm and making calculated decisions.

Keep believing God:

Being steadfast is being constant in our beliefs. In other words, when things go badly, we don’t get too low; when things go well, we don’t get too excited. Steadfastness keeps on believing God, trusting God, and continuing to do the word of God. Why? Because we know God keeps His promises, and He is always for us.

So let’s believe God and cultivate the fruit — characteristics of being steadfast. It will help us in every area of our lives.

Just a thought,

PSS

As we go about our day, dealing with all the issues of life that confront us, serving people is something we should keep in the forefront of our minds.

Do not be self-absorbed:

Whether it’s family, work, relationships, or anything else, we should think of people first. I’ve observed that those who serve others in some capacity are usually happier than those who live for themselves. It keeps things in perspective.

Serve and help others:

When we visit a young person who’s fighting for their life against a sickness, it can cause those seemingly impossible and big problems in our lives to appear insignificant. A selfish life will always cause problems to be magnified in our own eyes and mind. Serving others will put things in perspective. When we see someone who is disabled or less fortunate, let’s remind ourselves to serve and help others.

We should be unselfish people with our lives. We will find it rewarding and well worth it.

Just a thought,

PSS