There is a pain associated with making changes in our lives. Change of any kind can be quite agonizing and can affect us mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally. Some shifts just happen, like the loss of a loved one, losing a job, or going through a divorce, just to name a few. I have been around people who have lost a loved one and observed the adjustments they've had to make. I watched their pain as they deal with situations and the choices they have to make. It needs to be something we take a closer look at and count the cost, especially since 70% of us resist change when it comes. What I mean by that is, what will it cost us for making (or not making) changes and adjustments and what benefit / harm will it bring me? Let's be open to making changes in our lives and making the tough decision that will ultimately benefit our families and us.

Just a thought. God bless.

PSS

Have you ever thought about the proper way to deal with difficult people? You know the ones: they're hard to get along with, they always seem to have issues and they also seem to cause you problems. All of us know or have at least one in our life. It could be your boss, your co-worker, an employee or family member. One way to help them is to befriend them. Talk with them and find out what happened in their lives to cause them to act in a way that affects others so adversely. Most of the time you'll find out they have been hurt or they walk in fear because of something that has happened to them. Being kind and understanding will help bridge the gap and put that person at ease so they won't always be so defensive. To fight back or argue with them will only feed their insecurities; it won't help them to relax and let their guard down. Most people I've met like this are hurting and one thing I know: hurting people hurt people. So let's try to understand where difficult people are coming from and help them.

Just a Thought. God bless.

PSS

Have you ever been frustrated with a person or some circumstance? Today, we see more and more people experiencing this emotion. Frustration is a state of tension that occurs as a result of some goal-directed behavior that is being thwarted or postponed. It is also the equivalent of disappointment, impediment and failure. The root cause of frustration is insecurity and is the outcome of persistent emotional imbalance in one's life. This bafflement is the feeling that comes when you believe you are being stopped from reaching your goals. All of us have experienced this at one time or another, but then we get our bearings straight and move ahead. For some people, it stops them every time. It begins to anger you to the point of complete discouragement. It causes us to think irrationally, take things out of perspective and begins to focus in on someone or something and blames them for our lack of success. It is something we can control, by being patient and realizing that setbacks can later on produce greater success if we handle them properly. So, when you start to feel frustration coming on, take a deep breath, take a step back and allow yourself to keep it in perspective. Understand this: if your plan gets altered it's not the end of the world. It just means you have another opportunity to succeed.

Just A Thought.  God bless.

PSS

Have you ever been caught in a downward spiral? Does it seem like nothing's going right? It usually starts with the belief that you are not good at something or that you never get a break. Then, to top it off, it seems as though the results you want just aren't happening.

People who are consistently unhappy are that way because they've been without the results they want for so long they just give up and quit living this precious life. We have to quit dwelling on the negative and start thinking about the successes and what we've done well. "What has worked out for me?" Begin to see and believe that "you can" instead of finding reasons why "you can't". How we think of ourselves determines how well we do in life. When I coached my children, the one thing I had them always repeat was "I can." Why? Because once you believe it, the world and the way you view it will change drastically as you live it.

Just a thought, God bless.
PSS

As we reflect on this weekend, and watch the whole world stop and take a moment to recognize what most call, "Easter," a better term to use would be, "Resurrection Sunday." This is the day we honor the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ's death, burial and resurrection from the dead. He gives everyone who willfully believes in Him eternal life and hope. Do you know that without hope we have no ambition, no vision, no future and no peace? We just fall into fear and anxiety, which, in turn, makes us selfish and self-centered.  
 
A lack of hope in our life, our heart and mind, robs us of true life. People without hope have difficulty functioning in their daily lives. They have trouble thinking, remembering and making decisions. They become nervous, they don't go out much, and they become afraid of doing things. They also believe that what they think and feel is more important than what others think and feel. Because they lack hope, they believe the world revolves around them and others are only here to meet their needs. They become people who are selfish and stingy.
 
Listen, we can never give up living and hoping for the best or for things to get better. We can have a down moment, but we can never quit hoping. Colossians 1:27 says, "Jesus is the hope of glory." So as you go through this week, keep hope alive. Things can and will change, but nothing will rob you of your hope.  

Just a Thought.  God bless.

PSS