Conflict doesn’t start with a storm — it starts with a spark. A sharp word. A sarcastic post. A refusal to forgive. Proverbs tells us that “starting a quarrel is like opening a floodgate” (Proverbs 17:14, NLT). And once that gate is lifted, the damage spreads fast. Many relationships haven’t been ruined by one major explosion, but by a steady leak of pride, ego, and the need to be right. That’s why the wisest people learn not just how to fight — but when to walk away.

Jesus didn’t say, “Blessed are the right” — He said, “Blessed are the peacemakers.” And being a peacemaker doesn’t mean we ignore truth, but that we speak it in love. It means we stop chasing “wins” in arguments and start fighting for peace in our homes, our churches, and our conversations. Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is be quiet, forgive, and let God defend you.

Maybe today, God is asking you to stop lifting the floodgate, close the door on drama, and open your heart to healing. A crust with peace is far better than a feast with conflict. Choose peace — not just for yourself, but for the people around you. 

Just a thought,

PSS