Conflict is inevitable. No relationship is immune.

Opportunity knocks:

When managed biblically, conflict can serve as a catalyst for change and an opportunity for spiritual and relational growth. Psychologists define conflict to be: a state of opposition, disagreement, or incompatibility between two or more people or groups of people. Conflict mostly refers to the existence of the clash, which can be interests, values, actions, or directions. In a “Peanuts” cartoon, Lucy says to Snoopy, “There are times when you really bug me, but I must admit there are also times when I feel like giving you a big hug.” Snoopy replies, “That’s the way I am … bugable and hugable [sic]!”

Approach/Avoidance:

And so it is with us and our relationships — we need each other, yet we annoy each other. At times, the people to whom we are the closest are those with whom we experience the most conflict. In friendships, we are off again and on again. Before marriage, opposites attract; but after marriage, opposites attack. In the Church, as the old saying goes, “We long to live in Heaven, together in God’s glory. To live together down on earth, well, that’s another story.”

Might is not right:

Proverbs 15:1 (NLT): A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare. We must learn how to handle conflict better, realizing it’s not about being right: it’s about resolving the issue. In Matthew 5:39 (NIV), Jesus said, “But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also.” To the Jew, this was offensive. They were looking for a military leader who would help them destroy their enemies. Jesus was saying you must give up your rights. Today, we live in a world where people are taught to stand up, fight for your rights — what you think you deserve. Jesus was teaching us not to demand our rights.

In order to resolve conflict, we must pray and humble ourselves and make it about the issue. The relationship is always more important than the issue.

Just a thought,

PSS

Everyone has principles they live by, which are not negotiable and should never be set aside. 

Negotiation:
Too many Christians compromise the word of God in their lives. The word of God is not, and should never be, up to negotiation. Compromise can be beneficial when it promotes cooperation without sacrificing normal values, the standard of the Bible. When you begin to take a wrong step in a direction that you know is unwise, it can lead to compromise. 

The highest way:
Compromise is defined as an agreement or settlement of dispute that is reached by each side making concessions. It also means to accept standards that are lower than desirable. In other words, when you compromise the word of God to do something you want, you are accepting standards that are lower. God’s ways are higher than our ways; His thoughts are higher, better than our thoughts. God’s ways are always the best ways. 

Repentance:
Compromising beliefs has caused so much pain for people. It causes regret. Regret is awful! If you have found yourself compromising the word of God for someone or something, repent quickly and purpose to get it right. Change your ways immediately. Then you will see God’s blessing, His help in your life and family. 

Some things are negotiable but never is the word of God. Believe it and act on it. Hebrews 12:10-13.

Just a thought,
PSS

Either you trust in someone or something, or you don’t.

Decide:
When you decide to trust someone or something, you are confident about its integrity, strength, or ability. So, in order to trust, the object of your trust must be worthy of your confidence and reliance. For example, we tend to marry someone we trust, and if that relationship remains healthy and continues to grow, the trust level will increase, not decrease.

Father knows best:
As for our spiritual relationship, we need to realize that God has our best interest in mind. Sometimes we look for immediate gratification, where God is looking at the whole picture and for our future. When these ideas clash, it might be tempting to think, God doesn’t care for me or love me.

Trust God:
We have to learn to trust God and have confidence in Him. No matter what, God is the only one who sees our future, and He’s always looking out for us, for our own good, for our life. You can trust Him.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and don’t lean on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5).

Just a thought,
PSS

Faith is a powerful force that fuels our belief in God and His word, allowing us to face any situation with courage and confidence. Romans 8:31 serves as a constant reminder that if God is for us, no challenge is insurmountable. Embracing faith means trusting in God's plan for our lives, even when the path is unclear or filled with obstacles. We can find solace in the fact that our Creator is infinitely wise, loving, and merciful, always working for our ultimate good. When we allow faith to guide our actions, we align ourselves with divine wisdom, ensuring that we remain steadfast through life's trials and tribulations.

Confidence in God and His word allows us to stand firm in the face of adversity. As we meditate on the promises and truths contained within the Scriptures, we begin to understand the unwavering love and support that God has for us. This understanding strengthens our resolve and helps us remain confident in our convictions, even when external circumstances may seem daunting or overwhelming. When we keep our eyes focused on God and His promises, we can tap into the divine strength that empowers us to overcome any obstacle.

Courage is the byproduct of a strong faith and unshakable confidence in God. With God on our side, we can boldly face any challenge that comes our way, knowing that we are never alone. As we develop our relationship with God through prayer, worship, and study of His word, we grow in our ability to confront difficult situations with courage and conviction. God equips us with the necessary tools to face life's battles head-on, and when we lean on Him, we find the courage to persevere and triumph over any adversity that may come our way. Our faith, confidence, and courage in God ultimately serve as a testament to His power and grace, inspiring others to seek refuge in His loving embrace.

Just A Thought,

PSS

Easter is a time of renewal, rebirth, and hope, as we celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ and the triumph of life over death. 

Cultivate:
This Easter attitude, full of positivity and optimism, is one that we should strive to carry with us throughout the year. By embracing the spirit of Easter, we can cultivate a sense of gratitude and joy, allowing it to permeate every aspect of our lives.

Connect:
The Easter season reminds us of the importance of love, compassion, and forgiveness. By practicing these virtues daily, we can foster stronger connections with our friends, family, and community. Just as the daffodils and tulips bloom brightly during this time, we too can blossom by sharing our kindness and generosity with others. In doing so, we can create a more harmonious and beautiful world for everyone to enjoy.

Continue:
This year, let us challenge ourselves to carry the spirit of Easter in our hearts and minds long after the celebration has passed. May we all continue to be beacons of hope, love, and positivity, inspiring others to do the same. 

As we reflect upon the profound message of Easter, let it serve as a gentle reminder that our capacity for renewal and growth is limitless, and that every day presents a new opportunity to make a positive impact on the world around us.

Just a thought, 
PSS